Community Guidelines
This is a translation. If it differs from the Korean version, the Korean version applies.
Paperly is a place to get to know people from other countries slowly and safely. Please follow the guidelines below so everyone can chat comfortably. Breaking them can lead to a warning, feature restrictions or suspension.
Please do
- Start slowly. Don't rush contact details, photos or meeting up until the other person is comfortable.
- Be respectful. Different countries, languages and cultures express things differently. Remember that translations can sound awkward.
- Be the real you. Use your own photos and accurate information.
- Respect a "no." If the other person ends the conversation or doesn't reply, leave it at that.
Not allowed
| Not allowed | Examples |
|---|---|
| Asking for money, fraud | Asking for or encouraging money, gifts, investments, crypto or transfers. Asking to borrow money because of an urgent situation |
| Sexual harassment | Sending unwanted sexual messages or photos, asking for photos, encouraging paid "conditional" meetups or prostitution |
| Harassment and hate | Insults, threats, stalking, putting people down because of nationality, race, gender, sexual orientation and so on |
| Fake profiles | Using someone else's photos, lying about age or gender, hiding that you're married while using the app for dating |
| Spam and ads | Promotion, multi-level marketing, steering people to other apps or sites, sending the same message to many people |
| Pushing for contact details | Repeatedly asking for messenger IDs, phone numbers or social media when the other person doesn't want to share |
| Involving minors | Use by anyone under 19 (by full age), trying to chat with or meet a minor |
| Invading privacy | Making public or spreading someone's conversations or photos without their consent |
If something feels wrong
- Block: You can block someone right away from the chat room menu. They won't be notified.
- Report: You can report from a chat room, recommendation card or received request. When you report, the recent conversation is saved as evidence, and the person disappears from your screen right away.
- If money comes up, don't send any — report it. The Company will never ask members to send money, under any circumstances.
- If you decide to meet, meet for the first time in a busy public place, and let people around you know your plans.
What operators do
When several reports pile up, the ability to send stops automatically until the review is finished.
Fraud, sexual offenses and conduct involving minors lead to immediate suspension without warning.
If you disagree with an action, let us know at support@paperflylabs.com.
Effective date: November 14, 2026